From the Home Place

August 15, 2025

Today, we will discuss that last of our Spiritual Disciplines – Hospitality.

In today’s culture, most churches are either digressing or dead. Why? Well, we don’t have the time, nor the space to go into all of details behind this issue, but may I suggest that the number one issue is because we have made the local church a club where the “Frozen Chosen” gather on a regular basis to continue our spiritual life as we feel comfortable.

The discipline of hospitality will cause us to step outside the comfortable walls of the local church, and start inviting people into our homes. As you read through the gospels, note how often Jesus shared a meal with someone. If we are to be Christ-Followers, we must share meals with those who are presently outside of the church family.

Note of extreme importance: “Do not allow the condition of your home to keep you from having guests into your home.” Sure, clean up a bit, but do not go on a three-day cleaning spree just to invite someone over for a meal. After all, you are inviting people into your home to get to know you and your family, it’s not about how clean your house is. Be real with people, be who you are and invite others to join you there.

Your home, your life, your family dynamic do not have to be perfect, just presentable. You do not have to be a gourmet cook, simple is fine. Serve a meal you would usually serve your family, in the environment you usually live, with the focus of connecting lives. Don’t pretend, be real; be who you are inviting your guests to be the same. Laugh and enjoy, it will be good for all involved.

Food has the amazing ability to break down barriers. Sharing a meal with someone else is a great way to get acquainted. Yes, it is acceptable to take your guests out for that first meal, but your home is usually quieter and more personal. Remember, the goal of hospitality is for people to get to know you, not your favorite restaurant. Ask polite questions about who they are: their interests, hobbies, work, family dynamics and individual lives – childhood and education are safe topics. Allow them to carry the conversation, this time is about them, not just you.

Of the seven Spiritual Disciplines we have discussed, this last one is usually the most difficult, yet it is often the most rewarding. Forget the stress, deal with the mess however you must, but don’t allow the Devil to keep you from being hospitable. Trust the Holy Spirit to guide the conversation, enjoy a special opportunity to see Him at work within and though your life – It is FUN!

Practicing hospitality with you, Neal